“Loving is a way of knowing, and for loving to know, it must personify. Personifying is thus a way of knowing, especially knowing what is invisible, hidden in the heart.” - James Hillman
Resources
Recommended reading
Care of the Soul: A Guide for Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in Everyday Life by Thomas Moore
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk
The Hero’s Journey by Joseph Campbell
Trauma and the Soul: A Psycho-spiritual Approach to Human Development and Its Interruption by Donald Kalsched
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter Levine
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help you Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
A Blue Fire by James Hillman
Memories, Dreams, Reflections by Carl Jung
Psychotherapy Grounded in the Feminine Principle by Barbara Stevens Sullivan
The Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor
Breath: the New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype by Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
Jung’s Map of the Soul by Murray Stein
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
Thoughts Without a Thinker: Psychotherapy from a Buddhist Perspective by Mark Epstein
The Universe in You: An Inner Journey Guided by Rumi with translations by Omid Arabian
Making Space: Creating a Home Meditation Practice by Thich Nhat Hanh
Publications
Tending Soul in Connection to Spirit: A Depth Psychological Inquiry Into Transcendence and Spiritual Bypassing by Maura Tousignant. Master’s degree thesis written at Pacifica Graduate Institute, available to read on ProQuest.
Sufis, Sheikhs, and Semazans: A Study of Persian Sufi Poetry in Verse and Ritual by Maura Tousignant. Undergraduate thesis written for the Distinguished Majors Program in Comparative Literature, focusing on Mohammad Jalaluddin Rumi’s verses in Divan-e Shams-e Tabriz and the ecstatic state of whirling, available at the University of Virginia.
The Lily: Transforming Images of Magical Realism into Dance by Maura Tousignant. Written for the U.Va. Center for Undergraduate Excellence as part of a research grant for a project inspired by the Iranian novella Women Without Men by Shahrnush Parsipur, on transforming literary imagery to movement through Persian classical dance and Sufi ritual whirling.